1. Thou Shalt Always Know What Time It Is
Meetings and organizations run on time.
2. Thou Shalt Not Forget the Main Reason for Meetings
People tend to wander off onto whatever else is on their mind. The natural state of group discussion is to wander with them. Meetings are unnatural and need to be kept that way to maintain efficiency.
3. Thou Shalt Remember the Golden Rule of Meetings
Praise in Public, criticize in private.
4. Thou Shalt Not Convene Meetings Outside of Normal Business Hours
Unless there is an emergency, keep the meetings to working hours.
5. Thou Shalt Not Use Group Pressure to Logroll Conclusions
Don’t use peer pressure to force a decision, especially if the decision is wrong in some way. This will come back to bite you.
6. Thou Shalt Not Use Meetings to Destroy Others’ Careers
Old adage: “The people you step on, on the way up, might be the same people greasing the rails on the way down.”
7. Thou Shalt Keep the Personal and the Corporate Distinct
Some socializing is appropriate before, during, and after breaks at meetings. Much more than that becomes self-defeating.
8. Thou Shalt Remember that the Best Model for Meetings Is Democracy, Not Monarchy
If you want to share your decisions with everyone, use a video, a memo, or another means. If you call a meeting, it implies you want input. If you want input, give people a stake in the meeting; give them some power.
9. Thou Shalt Always Prepare a Clear Agenda and Circulate It Beforehand
An essential element of efficiency and meeting effectiveness. Keeps meeting on track toward a known goal.
10. Thou Shalt Terminate a Regularly Scheduled Meeting When Its Purpose for Being No Longer Exists